tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post7833907748587407849..comments2023-06-27T05:08:26.659-04:00Comments on B.I. Redux: Conversations with my ex.Secret Agent Womanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comBlogger43125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-1751194738272627162014-03-21T06:49:01.508-04:002014-03-21T06:49:01.508-04:00After 20 years together, he knows how to get my at...After 20 years together, he knows how to get my attention! And sorry - I heard it, so you had to hear it.Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-37749050245042102582014-03-21T00:17:00.965-04:002014-03-21T00:17:00.965-04:00I'm hooting at how quickly you snap to when he...I'm hooting at how quickly you snap to when he drops his little nuggets. Ha!<br /><br />Also: you typed "vaginal atrophy." Don't do that ever again. EEEEK.Jocelynhttp://omightycrisis.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-16007694661202205662014-03-19T18:11:49.914-04:002014-03-19T18:11:49.914-04:00Ah well, he was in a medical field prior to psycho...Ah well, he was in a medical field prior to psychology, so I'm used to it!Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-70192689576980314162014-03-19T06:18:21.116-04:002014-03-19T06:18:21.116-04:00It's good that you and your Ex have such a fri...It's good that you and your Ex have such a friendly relationship but personally, I wouldn't want to hang out with him. His choice of topics seem a little bit .....scary. He'd probably talk to me about the latest advances in probing prostates. Not my idea of fun. I'm just saying. :)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-85710527843514306162014-03-17T18:48:49.518-04:002014-03-17T18:48:49.518-04:00You should!You should!Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-59565705028492468002014-03-17T18:48:41.856-04:002014-03-17T18:48:41.856-04:00Well, as I say, we have a comfortable relationship...Well, as I say, we have a comfortable relationship so it's not hard.Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-12574024370506305452014-03-17T18:48:11.861-04:002014-03-17T18:48:11.861-04:00We've worked together since I got my license, ...We've worked together since I got my license, so I'm used to it.<br /><br />:-)Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-80579224143960331052014-03-17T17:14:03.597-04:002014-03-17T17:14:03.597-04:00I love that comment about the wrinkles and kidneys...I love that comment about the wrinkles and kidneys. May drop it into conversation myself sometime :) Jenny Woolfhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16881781466502273314noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-52625495579593708052014-03-16T22:35:41.051-04:002014-03-16T22:35:41.051-04:00You all are stronger than me. I don't think I ...You all are stronger than me. I don't think I could have an office near even any of my ex-gfs. The Mrs. works in a different department and we have little overlap at work despite that our offices are on the same floor. <br /><br />Good for you with the sugar control. Slamdunkhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13087161268629251860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-86640031661377835512014-03-16T22:07:43.477-04:002014-03-16T22:07:43.477-04:00I so admire your cordial relationship with your ex...I so admire your cordial relationship with your ex, I adore my Hubby and am not sure I could run a business with him right now!! <br />AND my reaction about how high sugar diets can affect your organs would have been exactly the same as yours. Exactly! Stephaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17218519474695662328noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-14603330076103101482014-03-16T20:14:21.841-04:002014-03-16T20:14:21.841-04:00Thankfully, that isn't an issue for me. My su...Thankfully, that isn't an issue for me. My surgeon told me that surgical menopause is much more difficult to adjust to than the normal, gradual menopause, so I'm glad I didn't have to forfeit my ovaries.Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-58217837106593290142014-03-16T20:12:59.251-04:002014-03-16T20:12:59.251-04:00We could have split up the practice, and considere...We could have split up the practice, and considered it. But there seemed to be no sense in that since we still were good business partners. Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-36941164512176507942014-03-16T19:18:06.750-04:002014-03-16T19:18:06.750-04:00Vaginal atrophy, yes. I have had to (early life h...Vaginal atrophy, yes. I have had to (early life hysterectomy) be on a low dose HRT for years to keep it at bay and without the .5 mg. of estrogen I get, sex is impossible. Mine treatment is called the Fem Ring and it works like a diaphragm, minus the middle, just the rubber-like ring. Insert, and change every 3 months. No daily med or lotion; it does all the work and I don't feel it at all. I feel a little weird typing it out here in public, but if it helps a single woman deal with what is a very real and awful condition, then I think I'm doing the right thing!susankhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16224524939337672360noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-3813523226930458662014-03-16T12:03:17.795-04:002014-03-16T12:03:17.795-04:00As you work together, it seems best to be on good ...As you work together, it seems best to be on good terms with your ex and you are lucky that you can do this. Some just could not.<br /><br />I had to change from patches as they caused such a rash and intensive itching.<br />I didn't seem to suffer with the menopause at all as I started HRT orally before it all started.<br />Maggie x<br /><br /><a href="http://granniemay.blogspot.com/" rel="nofollow">Nuts in May</a>Maggie Mayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06183886005936250976noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-58712483493411275482014-03-16T06:27:38.880-04:002014-03-16T06:27:38.880-04:00Sugar to gain weight is not a good idea. You'...Sugar to gain weight is not a good idea. You're just asking for diabetes. Better healthy food.Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-57643423039916793122014-03-16T06:27:12.030-04:002014-03-16T06:27:12.030-04:00It is only ever an issue a couple of days a month,...It is only ever an issue a couple of days a month, otherwise chocolate and caffeine don't affect me at all.Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-56139645455183732952014-03-16T02:41:29.723-04:002014-03-16T02:41:29.723-04:00Meanwhile, I'm struggling to gain weight and I...Meanwhile, I'm struggling to gain weight and I'm cramming as many sugary treats into my mouth just to barely reach 3000 calories a day.<br /><br />I think I need to start clean bulking...DWeihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01052727489537771147noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-51569115265532704132014-03-15T15:23:25.126-04:002014-03-15T15:23:25.126-04:00I believe your breasts are going to thank you for ...I believe your breasts are going to thank you for not eating chocolate. Chocolate and caffeine can make fibrous breasts hurt more. Debby@Just Breathehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11685398064340027809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-25955374600676134422014-03-15T08:21:35.135-04:002014-03-15T08:21:35.135-04:00A health scare for a parent often changes the adul...A health scare for a parent often changes the adult child. I changed my habits after my mother's breast cancer.Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-10351892344894965372014-03-15T08:20:53.625-04:002014-03-15T08:20:53.625-04:00It definitely makes for more pleasant get-together...It definitely makes for more pleasant get-togethers as far as the children are concerned. And I like his wife - she's pleasant to me and good to my children.<br /><br />I think it's hard for people to see long-term consequences to their health. But it matters how you treat your body.Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-80158057897469725892014-03-15T07:49:05.979-04:002014-03-15T07:49:05.979-04:00smiles...after my fathers heart attack last week, ...smiles...after my fathers heart attack last week, talking with the nutritionist i realized quite a few things that will be importnat in my diet and exercise for some time to come....sheesh...def important to think about maintenance...Brian Millerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00722940075884718007noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-79480328271212998612014-03-15T00:43:46.134-04:002014-03-15T00:43:46.134-04:00I think it is a good thing you have a working rela...I think it is a good thing you have a working relationship with your ex (no pun intended, LOL) because you are kind of "tied" together with each other because of the kids, so its good that you don't hate each other's guts so to speak and can't stand to be in the same room together; could get a bit awkward down the road at weddings. Good for you for cutting back on sugar! I hear it is supposed to be better to avoid it, but I just don't think I have the stamina to do so :)<br /><br />Always good to be proactive with one's health. Believe you me, sitting here and typing medical reports all day, I see the deterioration of people's health who don't take care of their bodies.<br /><br />bettybettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06323135450742337670noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-48261176440990945612014-03-14T21:39:23.439-04:002014-03-14T21:39:23.439-04:00Oh ok, that makes perfect sense then (about the pa...Oh ok, that makes perfect sense then (about the patch).<br /><br />And yeah, I was meaning no apologies for the both of us!Bijouxhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05788630004051883635noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-25383390515063468342014-03-14T19:33:01.276-04:002014-03-14T19:33:01.276-04:00You don't have to apologize - I'm not tryi...You don't have to apologize - I'm not trying to convert anyone. I'll eventually go back to a little chocolate every day, but I needed to cuut back for my health.<br /><br />We'd actually talked about it at my last appointment and I told her I'd think about it. She is so loathe to prescribe anything, that when she recommended it and said she is on a patch herself, I felt confidant she considers it a safe option.Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8104951117718966173.post-18944458463148076862014-03-14T19:31:11.553-04:002014-03-14T19:31:11.553-04:00I think you may be misinterpreting my writing styl...I think you may be misinterpreting my writing style and reading this as far more serious than it's intended to be. I often write about what I find funny.Secret Agent Womanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07564690116156754219noreply@blogger.com