Sunday, July 28, 2013
Friday, July 26, 2013
I curse my children for watching South Park.
Couldn't understand why haters joked around
I wanted to be free with other creatures like me
And now I got my wish, cause I know that I'm a gay fish." (Kanye West)
Posted by Secret Agent Woman at 5:09 PM 28 comments:
Friday, July 19, 2013
See ya later, alligator!
Posted by Secret Agent Woman at 6:43 AM 30 comments:
Monday, July 15, 2013
Vacations are always too brief.
Posted by Secret Agent Woman at 6:05 PM 32 comments:
Saturday, July 13, 2013
The weather gods were on my side.
Posted by Secret Agent Woman at 7:12 PM 24 comments:
Friday, July 12, 2013
Over the river and to the shore.
Posted by Secret Agent Woman at 10:30 AM 29 comments:
Thursday, July 11, 2013
Another brief vacation in retrospect.
Posted by Secret Agent Woman at 7:22 PM 26 comments:
Friday, July 5, 2013
There's an ocean calling my name.
I actually had someone tell me straight out that she was unhappy, wanted to be happier, but was unwilling to do a single thing to change. Not. One. Thing. Yeah, let me just get my magic wand.
Another who finishes every thought with either, "It's just one thing after another" or "I can't win." I've got news for him - life is one thing after another. It's true for everyone. But that's no reason to refuse to see the good that's also there.
And another who has been announcing for literally nearly a decade that she is on the verge of death and that the last week has been the worst week anyone has ever had and that she is in the worst pain anyone could ever experience. Well holy hell, you can't be dying for years (unless you count the fact that you are technically moving toward death from the instant you are born). And pain and trauma can only escalate so much - every single week simply cannot be the worst week ever. And guess what? Everyone in her life keeps a wide berth because they're freaking worn out with it.
It's my job to listen and to hold all that sorrow and rage and disappointment and to guide people toward something a little more productive than just feeling bad. But when I watch people building a self-fulfilling prophecy, refusing to take any responsibility, and essentially vowing to stay unhappy, it wears on me. And for whatever reason, I wasn't getting through. Sometimes I can. Actually, often I can - I'm a pretty decent shrink. But when the wave is that high, it tells me one thing. I need a break. I need to re-group, breathe, and clear my head. Even if only for a few days.
My house is clean, my laundry is done, my paperwork is caught up, my car is packed, my reservations are made, and I'm headed out to the South Carolina coast for a long weekend. Just me and the ocean air. Because I know one thing - I'm in charge of my own happiness.
Posted by Secret Agent Woman at 5:07 AM 52 comments:
Tuesday, July 2, 2013
The swallows appear
To swoop and dive around me
As I walk. Magic.
There is just so much to be amazed at in this world.
Posted by Secret Agent Woman at 3:35 PM 36 comments:
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